6 Flirting Tips
Wednesday, 25 November 2009 09:07 | 
Written by Rameesh Kumar |
If you want to flirt better with potential romantic partners, give these 6 tips a shot.
If you want to flirt better with potential romantic partners, give these 6 tips a shot.
1. Brush your teeth, floss, scrape your tongue, and whiten your teeth. No need to feel self-conscious when you flash your pearly whites. This is both more important, and less important than you think. While looks aren't as important to women as most men think, it's the signs that a man takes care of himself that impress a woman most.
2. Move with a sense of purpose. This doesn't necessarily mean a staccato brisk walk. It can be a lazy surfer-dude walk. But make it say something. Be deliberate.
3. Have some pictures ready to show. You can use these to remind yourself of stories that you can tell. And you can let the other person take the lead by asking you about pictures that interest them. If you've got an iPhone or a blackberry, or something like that, you can store pictures on your device and have them ready to show as you're getting to know a girl.
4. Be cocky and funny. Tease the other person. There's a fine line between "cocky" and "jerky", so be careful. Another way to put it is "playfully arrogant", or "warmly dominant". Pick the description that seems to fit best for you.
5. Flirt everywhere. Did a cute girl just bend down in front of you? Tell her you don't require people to bow down before you any more. See if she plays along.
6. Try mirroring the other person subtly. If they play with their hair, play with yours. If they tap their foot, tap yours. If they reach for their drink, reach for yours. Don't be too obvious, though. We like those who are like us.
6 tips. That's all. Keep at it. Soon you'll be flirting like Casanova. You should know that there are more comprehensive guides available for when you want to dig deeper.
If you want to flirt better with potential romantic partners, give these 6 tips a shot.
1. Brush your teeth, floss, scrape your tongue, and whiten your teeth. No need to feel self-conscious when you flash your pearly whites. This is both more important, and less important than you think. While looks aren't as important to women as most men think, it's the signs that a man takes care of himself that impress a woman most.
2. Move with a sense of purpose. This doesn't necessarily mean a staccato brisk walk. It can be a lazy surfer-dude walk. But make it say something. Be deliberate.
3. Have some pictures ready to show. You can use these to remind yourself of stories that you can tell. And you can let the other person take the lead by asking you about pictures that interest them. If you've got an iPhone or a blackberry, or something like that, you can store pictures on your device and have them ready to show as you're getting to know a girl.
4. Be cocky and funny. Tease the other person. There's a fine line between "cocky" and "jerky", so be careful. Another way to put it is "playfully arrogant", or "warmly dominant". Pick the description that seems to fit best for you.
5. Flirt everywhere. Did a cute girl just bend down in front of you? Tell her you don't require people to bow down before you any more. See if she plays along.
6. Try mirroring the other person subtly. If they play with their hair, play with yours. If they tap their foot, tap yours. If they reach for their drink, reach for yours. Don't be too obvious, though. We like those who are like us.
6 tips. That's all. Keep at it. Soon you'll be flirting like Casanova. You should know that there are more comprehensive guides available for when you want to dig deeper.
About the Author:
Tyler Paxon Ph.D. is the founder of the How To Flirt website. Take his free quiz at http://how2flirt.com
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